Options for getting latest intel cpu microcode running in my librem 14

For sure but when people say “Intel CPU microcode”, as per the topic title, they are generally talking about the microcode that goes into the Intel x86_64 CPU, and not the firmware that is run by the Intel ME (believed to be an Intel x86 32-bit CPU).

That could be a question that is exceedingly difficult to answer, in that if someone is to say that those are the only ways then that is a claim of non-existence for any other way.

Regardless, I think you are being told that the recommended way is to update the boot firmware (which is a good idea anyway).

In the event that the CPU microcode is being updated in order to patch a serious vulnerability, some people would prefer to do it at the earliest possible time i.e. without booting the normal operating system - in case the exploit can be triggered before you ever get to perform the update.

It is generally not a good idea to pull in stuff from non-PureOS debian repositories. You can get yourself in a mess e.g. conflicting dependencies or e.g. duplicate packages.