When it comes to the Librem 5 vs GrapheneOS vs any other Android phone, I have made perhaps an odd choice that seems the safest for me for now. I have one each of all three phones.
My Samsung Note 9 is my daily driver. It’s so old that updates are no longer available for it and my employer doesn’t even allow it to authenticate my access to their network, except via phone calls. I like it that way. The latest and greatest spying tools have not been installed to my Note 9. But it still does a lot of things for me, well.
My Pixil 6 with GrapheneOS on it is next in line to become my daily driver when my Note 9 becomes useless. I keep the Pixil 6 updated and I use it at home from time to time. It’ll be much older of a phone by the time my Note 9 dies. At that time, it will not have any of the latest and greatest of Spyware installed to it. But it will have GrapheneOS on it also.
When my Pixil 6 dies (maybe ten or more years from now), hopefully my Librem 5 will be ready for prime time by then. In the mean time, I am spending several years working with the Librem 5, learning how to use all of the Linux networking features on it, and occasionally installing or reinstalling the OS. By the time I really need my Librem 5, it’ll be no stranger to me. Both myself and the Librem 5 will be ready.
So my strategy is to avoid the latest and greatest technology when it comes to my phone. Stay under the radar as much as possible, and never run out of old phones that still work well. If some new and terribly invasive technology comes along on the new phone models, I can move to either the GrapheneOS Pixil 6 phone or to the Librem 5 at a moment’s notice. If nothing changes until ten or more years from now, I won’t be caught up then with the latest phone model, wishing I hadn’t gotten rid of my old phone. And when the current phone dies, I won’t be forced to buy a late model phone.
Ironically, I use Google Voice. My main number was ported to Google Voice and I forward my Google Voice number to all three phones, including to the Librem 5. All of my incoming calls can be answered on any of the three phones. I can’t call out from the Librem 5 using that Google Voice number as I can for the other two phones. But as soon as the SIP service is fixed on the Librem 5, I’ll be able to spoof my dial out number from the Librem 5, to show my Google Voice number. With a SIP service, spoofing your own number is super easy. I don’t care that Google probably retains transcripts of every call. I just don’t like microphones recording every moment I am awake, and I don’t like the web browser spying and advertising. The AI listening-in bothers me most. I don’t think that happens on my Note 9.
My significant other has a Samsung S22. It occasionally speaks up on its own and we don’t know how to shut it up petmanently. A few days ago, she asked me to turn something off in the car. Her phone replied “I don’t have the ability to turn anything off”. That kind of thing creeps me out. That’s never happened on my Note 9.